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|Posté le: Mar 19 Déc - 12:49 (2017) Sujet du message: how do you deal with people who want to become your friends when you are not really that interested?
I am struggling to get support from the people I need it most. People who I thought were close friends, have not really been in touch more than usual or offered support since my husband was diagnosed with cancer 2 years ago. I run a small shop and people who we 'know' but are not 'friends' walk in and out all day long asking about 'how we are coping' etc. and I am sick and tired of going through this emotional roller coaster in daily basis. I have tried not to talk about it at work too much as it makes me upset, but people are not taking this into consideration and at the same time they are not contacting me to meet outside work to talk about it properly and I feel really lonely in this. I have mentioned couple of times in social media that please do not use my work as a walk-in information center (in more polite wording) but these are the only contacts i have. any ideas how to move on?
I didn't find the right solution from the Internet.
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